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bcagalli18 (October 7, 2008 at 11:14 am)
:)
It's your life do what you want sex or no sex just make sure to have some fun :D
Solitemel (October 7, 2008 at 11:08 am)
Sorry. I just misunderstood for a minute. Maybe I will have sex someday, maybe I won't. I don't know.
bcagalli18 (October 7, 2008 at 6:54 am)
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um I'm not saying you should have sex at 14 at all OK
and trust me I know how hard it is to raise a child
and if you really feel that strongly than... rock on girl! lol. If you can go all your life without having sex than you deserve some brownie points because not many people can do that :P.
RisenFox (October 7, 2008 at 4:54 am)
Hate eachother? That's a bit harsh I think, If it's because they argue a lot, people argue because they care. I know it's cliche but whatever its true. Also it's very hard to stop caring for someone you know has been raped. As long as they aren't cussing eachother out because someone forgot their jacket I think you're good.
Solitemel (October 7, 2008 at 4:22 am)
As nice as that is, I know I won't my parents will never have sex again. My parents hate each other. Seriously. But I get the point.
Solitemel (October 7, 2008 at 4:20 am)
Yes, I do know what rape is. I know sex can be an act of love, but I don't have someone who I love that much. Plus, my mom would kill me if I were to have sex.
RisenFox (October 7, 2008 at 4:13 am)
When you love someone, sex becomes entirely about your partner and never about yourself. As a final note and to quote a friend of mine, when your parents continue to have sex it is a very good thing no matter how embarassing or disgusting it is to think about, it means they still feel the same as they did when they first met. Oc your parents will say what they said to you, all parents like to pretend their kids will never have sex which isnt a bad thing really. Either way, I hope this helps.
RisenFox (October 7, 2008 at 4:06 am)
But what I can tell you is this, when one person rapes another it's not ever an act of a desire or lust. It is meant to be an act of embarasment through pleasuring the person against their will. A person that would rape another does not have to be a pervert he/she would have to be someone with no moral basis whatsoever. Also whether u will believe me or not, sex can be an act of love, when you find someone to spend the rest of your life with, you want to see them happy.
Solitemel (October 7, 2008 at 4:01 am)
How am I putting words into your mouth?
As for recovering, I know I will. Time heals all wounds.
RisenFox (October 7, 2008 at 3:58 am)
You're putting words in my mouth which I don't find funny. I was wrong about the matured sexually part, the reason that you find sex disgusting is because you still suffer traumatic scars your childhood experience. Having to watch your mother being raped in front of you is something no one should ever have to endure especially as young as you were. I'm not going to tell you that sex isn't as bad as it would seem from that experience, that's something you'll need to recover from on your own. |
